http://existentialmedia.org/thebreeze/2008/10/it-doesnt-hurt-to-ask/ Wed, 10 Mar 2010 02:43:11 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 http://existentialmedia.org/thebreeze/2008/10/it-doesnt-hurt-to-ask/comment-page-1/#comment-38 lake Sat, 18 Oct 2008 02:35:02 +0000 http://existentialmedia.org/thebreeze/2008/10/it-doesnt-hurt-to-ask/#comment-38 I feel you on this. I just recently realized the old mark twain addage. In my line, you have to be asking people not only questions, but for favors on a consistant basis. I'm getting more and more into the idea of the squeeky wheel and also just a deeper knowing that people want to be asked questions, they want to share their expertise...it makes them feel really good, maybe even better than the questioner recieving the hoped-for answer..because people really do like to help eachother. It took me three years to aks a certain person for her help and she was like "what took you so long?!" I feel you on this. I just recently realized the old mark twain addage. In my line, you have to be asking people not only questions, but for favors on a consistant basis. I’m getting more and more into the idea of the squeeky wheel and also just a deeper knowing that people want to be asked questions, they want to share their expertise…it makes them feel really good, maybe even better than the questioner recieving the hoped-for answer..because people really do like to help eachother. It took me three years to aks a certain person for her help and she was like “what took you so long?!”

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